First Victory: A Lifetime of Failure and the Unexpected Luck of Fatherhood

A deeply personal reflection on failure, career, and becoming a father at 52. After a lifetime of unrealized ambitions and financial anxiety, I discover that my greatest success didn’t come from work or luck—but from becoming a father to my daughter, Sara.

Wine, Sara, and Cyndi Lauper | Singing My Favorite Songs to My Baby Daughter

After two sleepless days of vaccines, fever, and worry, I did something I never imagined I’d do as a parent: poured a glass of white wine and played Cyndi Lauper. One exhausted evening that turned into a quiet, unforgettable moment with Sara.